A Sincere Warning
Marriages has mastered the art of transforming what was angelic form of unity to an enduring disaster. It will seem that whenever a friendship, partnership or any form of union in a direct or indirect sense is created, one person has gotta give. Unfortunately, for him or her who has given more, at the very end more will be required. The recipient of whatever it is will be cold, stoic, stupid, manipulative, self-serving, and self-absorbed. Any form of relationship where the basis of its existence is sacrifice from one party and one-sided enjoyment from the another leads to destruction. If you're the beneficiary of a bilateral or multilateral commitment and you never give anything back, let me be the first to commend you for an excellent job of being a parasite. I know this sounds like a bitter post, and it is. My indignation has sometimes reached the apex of self-inflicted internal cruelty that my best form of breathing and venting is to put things in paper. It's enough that people get hurt, emotionally beaten by the daily grind, suck out of life by sticking with a routine that is killing them daily. It is enough that the monotony one has to subject him or herself causes pains, sufferings and distress not fathomable by anyone but the person experiencing it. It is enough that the mistakes in one's life, which has yet to be rectified, will only be complemented by a greater fault. People change and sometimes they are the nightmare version of who they once were. They will lure you to believe their existence as heroes and pillars of authenticity, but they are treacherous, manipulative and unsafe. Many of them lurk around, searching for a prey to devour, and many have fallen on their traps. They speak words well and are devious in their approach. They will make you believe they are for real. Behind those words, however, is a tactic - intended to rob your best from you for their own use and in the end they will leave you with nothing but a painful emotional experience, a lifelong scar that will can only be healed by a supernatural force, provided by an Observer who has experienced the suffering you're going through a multitudes times over.